Top tips for adding humour to your wedding ceremony
Eeeeeeeh, there’s nothing quite like a good laugh at a wedding, is there?! A well-timed chuckle can melt nerves, lift the mood and set the tone for the whole day.
Adding humour to your ceremony isn’t about turning it into a stand-up show. It’s about celebrating the silly, heartwarming and unique bits of your story. Here’s how we do it together..
Keep it authentic
The best laughs come from truth. Your real-life stories — the slightly daft, gloriously human moments — are where the comedy gold lives. Maybe it’s a disastrous first date, a habit your partner swears they don’t have, or a shared love of tea stronger than the WiFi signal.
When you book me as your celebrant, I’ll send a questionnaire designed to dig out all the gems, so we can highlight your story’s funniest bits and make the ceremony feel truly you.
Do a bit of comedy research
If you fancy, take the opportunity to do a little “research” in the name of comedy! Read some Spike Milligan, Mae West, or other comedy greats, or head out to a local stand-up gig. It’s a sneaky way to get inspiration, spot timing tricks, and see what makes people genuinely laugh — all of which can feed into your ceremony.
Find the funny in real-life hiccups
Something will go slightly off-script on the day — a forgotten line, a rogue breeze, or a ring that refuses to cooperate. Instead of panicking, lean into it. Those little hiccups often create the most memorable moments.
I’ll be there keeping my eyes and ears open, ready to help you turn any “oops” into laughter. You stay relaxed, your guests stay entertained, and the day feels full of joy — not panic.
Bring the banter (without assassinating your partner!)
A touch of cheek is brilliant in a ceremony. Gentle teasing, funny observations, or little nods to your quirks can make everyone grin.
I spend time really getting to know you both so your playful banter can be woven naturally into your vows and stories. It’ll sound like you, not me trying to be funny for the sake of it.
Mix giggles with goosebumps
The sweetest ceremonies are the ones that take everyone on an emotional journey — laughter one minute, a lump in the throat the next.
Because I’ll know your story inside out, I can make sure those shifts feel seamless. We’ll go from a proper belly laugh to a touching moment in a heartbeat. That’s the magic of a ceremony that’s funny and heartfelt.
Involve your guests so they’re in on the joke
A wedding can also be a celebration for all the people who’ve cheered you on and loved you along the way. Let’s bring them into the fun.
I’ll help you include your guests in playful ways — a cheeky reading from a friend, a group vow, or a moment that gets everyone smiling together. When the room is laughing, the love and energy bounce off the walls.
Lean on your celebrant to help weave it all together
All the stories, the laughs, the little mishaps — it’s my job to pull it together into a ceremony that flows beautifully. Think of me as your ceremony choreographer: making sure the funny bits land just right, the heartfelt moments have space to breathe, and the whole thing feels authentic.
A ceremony full of laughter and love
Humour doesn’t cheapen your wedding. It deepens it. When everyone’s laughing, they’re relaxed. When they’re relaxed, they’re present. And when they’re present, that’s the jackpot.
So, if you fancy a ceremony that’s full of giggles, goosebumps, and genuine heart, give me a shout. I’ll bring the mic, the warmth, and a healthy dose of northern charm.
